Honestly, it is a struggle for women to find a man that fits in the support of being the perfect husband.
Obviously, it works both ways, but since we love writing for men, let us tell you that women, inevitably, when they start dating you, analyze your qualities so that they fit into the ratio quotient.
Besides being charismatic, safe and good in bed, there are many other qualities you must possess to be a good husband to a woman who deserves your effort.
For the most part, we are all under the misconception that women and men have dates with couples that are different from the couples they chose when they want to get married. While it may be true in some cases, we believe that in most cases you would want that consistency in your life to have to wake up with the same person every day.
So, if you are a man who ultimately seeks to immerse yourself in the path of marriage, you need to be ready for that and have certain qualities that make women want to marry, to gravitate towards you.
Here are 5 essential qualities you must possess to make a good husband:
(1) Be There For Her Even When It’s Inconvenient For You
Yes, I know you would ask why you have to be there all the time and that you also have a life that is equally important. Some may even counterattack by saying that they like their independence, so why do you need to make a great effort to do things for them?
But you see, associations require commitment and sacrifice, and you’re not choosing to go out with it, but to spend your life with it.
There are times when she can fall weak. Like when she is having a baby with you or when she is going through menopause. You can not leave her in these difficult times and venture to think that you have a life of your own.
Now you have greater responsibilities towards your partner and it is good to start showing them when you are in a relationship with her, so that she knows that you will be through hardness.
(2) You Have To Accept Her Flaws
Maybe when you go out with someone you can tell their shortcomings and tell them to make corrective. But if you are seriously considering spending your life with someone and expecting them to see you in the same way, then you need to accept their shortcomings and accept who and what they are.
If you want to address them so that the person knows that some things are undisciplined, you must do that. But make sure you do it without making her feel guilty for having flaws in the first place.
She should not be hiding her true self from you because she thinks you can not accept her. Make her accept you as an important person in your life, from the beginning.
(3) A Keen Sense of Responsibility Is Important
You can fall in love with her, profess all your love for her, but if you’re not responsible, there’s no way she’ll consider marrying you.
She sees responsibility as an inevitable negotiation between two people in a relationship. It gives you direction towards the future. If you show her that you are a responsible human being, she will want to follow the idea of you, in her future.
For her, your responsibility is synonymous with caring for and taking care of the children she may have, the future you two have and other important aspects of a marriage.
So, it’s time for you to pick up your socks and feel responsible, not only for yourself, but also for her.
(4) You Need To Be Open In Your Communication
Communication can be difficult at times when you need to open yourself, but in a relationship that is serious, that is something that should be involuntary.
If you do not open up and communicate your hopes, fears and dreams, then the relationship is quite superficial. Sometimes the best people move away because there is no communication between them.
If you and she have problems expressing themselves and communicating in a healthy way, you may find a way to do it more effectively. Communication is the key to a good and harmonious relationship.
(5) Infidelity Doesn’t Make A Good Husband
Men always tend to lean towards infidelity. There’s still no established reason for it, but somewhere, the trap becomes inevitable. It is not to blame or something to pin down. It is a fact and if you think that a woman is never enough for you, you should probably tell your partner or get away.
You can even see if you want to have an open relationship / marriage with her, in case you want her in your life but can not trust you enough. That way, you’re honest with her about things. But make sure that the decision to do that is mutual. Most marriages are broken due to infidelity and if you are someone who cheats, it is good to explain it before.
Making these characteristic changes is not easy, I agree, but sometimes things must be repaired to make room for newer and better things.
If you feel that you are someone who can change to adapt and bring a more faithful sense of company to your life, then try to make these changes and one day you will be a great husband to someone!